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HELPING MALE RAPE VICTIMS

Male sexual assault or rape is oftentimes a misunderstood area in our society.  While statistics are conflicting as to the number of males assaulted sexually, it is generally agreed that the number is high.

If you are a victim, you are not alone!  There are other men who have gone before you, moving from victim to survivor.  You will make that transition also.

Male victims of sexual assault or rape might encounter difficulties or needs that are specific to their gender.  In our society, there are often times stereotypical beliefs as to males being victims, especially of crimes of sexual nature.  As for help you need and keep asking until you find it.  There are those who will help you, support you, and assist you in your recovery.

What is Sexual Assault?

Sexual assault includes rape or any other forced, unwanted sexual contact.  Rape and other kinds of sexual assault are crimes of violence and power.

Attackers use different techniques to overpower their victims.

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  • Force or violence, including a weapon
  • Threats of force or violence against the victim or another person
  • Alcohol or other drugs to make a person defenseless

An Attacker may:

  • Take advantage of someone who is unaware of what is happening (passed out, asleep, etc.), or
  • Take advantage of a person’s mental or physical limitations because of age or disability
  • Victimize males as well as females

Who can be an Attacker?

 
  • Casual acquaintances
  • Pastors/priests
  • Dates
  • Counselors
  • Neighbors
  • Friends
  • Teachers
  • Spouses/partners
  • Parents or other relatives
  • Co-workers
  • Doctors
  • ANYONE!!

No matter the situation surrounding your assault, we encourage you to report the attack to the police.  There are several good reasons for doing so:

  • To restore your sense of power and place the blame where it belongs—on the attacker.
  • To catch and punish the attacker.
  • To help cover medial and related expenses.  (Victims who report within 72 hours of the crime are eligible for victim’s compensation.)

A victim may report an assault any time after the crime (even years later); but, as time passes, important evidence is lost, making prosecution very difficult.  Report to the police as soon as possible by dialing 911 and:

  • Get to a safe place
  • Do not shower, bathe, urinate, drink anything, smoke, brush your teeth, etc.
  • Do not change or clean your clothes, clean or straighten the crime scene.
  • Do not drink alcoholic beverages or take other drugs to calm yourself.  The police will ask you to make a statement.  Tell the whole truth.  Even if you were drunk or high, you did not deserve to be assaulted, and the rapist is always a criminal who deserves to be prosecuted.

 

Here is a number for male rape victims to call:  National Sexual Violence Resource Center

1-877-739-3895

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